ideals

are there any ideal guys?
no.

ko: hey, look at me, cant u see the five letters on me? I D E A L?

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but hang on,

is there any ideal girls?

no.

yet we dream bout being ideal.
while idealness is just a dream.
where we look for idealness,
the idealness is found only where it is not ideal.
but nature is always ideal.
we follow our instincts,
which will lead us to idealness.

while reproducing,
we look for partners with the best genes.
so that the next generation would survive.
the urge to mate with the one we presume to have the best genes,
the attraction.
its natural.
yet what we forget is whether we ourselves have the best genes which attract the opposite sex.
so look upon urself.
n think.

prime minister. ex.

peace.
whats peace?
people say they want peace.
yet they themselves do not uphold the peace.

as mahathir say,
evry1 does smthg 4 a reason.
no one goes on the street n punch sm1 on his nose for no reason.

except 4 me.

but thats nt the point.

the point is,
theres a reason theres war.

im nt sayin war is good.

but as a matter of fact,
its a struggle for existence.
as darwin said.
jus that war has evolved.
from claws and talons.
to sharper claws and talons.
till now,
an atomic bomb,
an even sharper talon.

to see the reason of war,
you see from both sides of parties.
both of them think they are right.
want their own way,
war starts.
killing starts.

but the logic is the same.
they are fighting for themselves.
you dont see any1 fightin for some1 else 4 no reason.
they are fightin for what they think is right.
though what they think is right may be wrong.
as the other side think is wrong,
which in turn the other side which think they are right may be wrong themselves.

and all in all its just a cycle with no end.
n no peace.

yet it continues.
cos nature dictates.
human nature is like that.
and there will still be war.
as sure as siblings do squabble.
as sure as couples do quarrel.
as it is their nature.
and nature dictates.
the time may come when theres no war.
but war will follow after.
then peace after war.
and war after peace.
a cycle of no end.
but ends when the world does.

our prime minister.
ex.
has a way with words.
he does say what he thinks is right.
as evry1 does.
but its the ability to make people think the way he think is right that i respect.
a very rare ability which made him prime minister.
though i wont criticise him.
cos he does has his own reasons for his own actions.
be it personal or watsoever.

n im nt stupid enough to get myslf persecuted.

of women and men.

please note i hold no responsibility for any errors watsoever in facts or info.
cos its just wat i notice.

males are attracted to females who look like their mom.
females are attracted to males like their dad.
they are attracted to them cos its the face they looked upon the most in their life.

females's brain think in a different frequency then male's.
we have a hamster.
female: its soooooo cuuuuuute.
male: yup. its cute. so?

females have their own logic.
males have their own too.
females read body language better than males.
though some males do read body language,
but dont do anytin bout it.

when males shop,
they go to the shop,
order what they want,
take it,
n go.
when females shop,
they go to the shop,
look around,
try everytin they like,
they go to the next shop,
n repeat the process.

when males get presents,
the more practical it is,
theres a greater chance he wont leave it in some corner n 4get bout it.
when females get presents,
the more expensive n useless it is,
the happier she is.

the art of seduction of women.
=art of being a jerk.
seriously.
they look at a jerk,
and let hormones and motherly instinct kick in.
hey presto,
shes in love.
but magnitude of jerkiness must be finely controlled to perfection to yield results.
too jerky n you r a clown.
not jerky n you are boring.
in simple words,
personality.
its not the only factor,
theres more.
a lot more.
but im lazy.

what bout vice versa?
what do men look 4 in women?
zhen asked me this.
her exact words,
:what would make you be attracted to a girl?

i cant answer 4 all males.
physically,
which i dont have any control on,
as i said.
she would be like my mom.
when shes young.

otherwise,
i wont tell u.
cos mom wants me t get girlfriend but not now.
NOT NOW.
well, i found her loophole.
which means i dont need 1.
yet.
not that i opposed to gettin 1.
its cos im not matured.
n the case rests here.

but generally,
males want females to be beautiful.
n definition of beautiful varies with each male.
males want females to be confident.
n levels of confidence varies with each male.
males want females to understand him.
someone they can trust.

theres more.
but as i told u.
im lazy.
n i need my chocolate milk.
so long.

tell me. why?

life's full of mysteries.
yet men strife to uncover them.
cos it's men's nature.
curiosity.
like mine.
the fools they are.
when they discover,
the greatest mystery.
is to remain a mystery.
all's clear to me.
cos i failed my ielts.
shouldnt have ask the examiner's mom's name.